Seasons Greetings from Tender Loving Eldercare

December 16th, 2009

View of park after a snowfall

Christmas gift suggestions:
To your enemy, forgiveness.
To an opponent, tolerance.
To a friend, your heart.
To a customer, service.
To all, charity.
To every child, a good example.
To yourself, respect.

~ Oren Arnold (1900-1980)

No matter where you live, whether it’s warm, cold, snowing or raining outside, I hope you will get cozy and immerse yourselves in the joys of the holiday season with family and friends.

There is nothing more important for the human spirit than connecting with others who are dear to you!

Thank you for reading my words of advice, inspiration and humor this year!

Happy Holidays and see you in 2010!

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Photo Credit:  Matti Mattila’s photostream

A Caregiver Logistics Tip and Contest Winner Announcement

November 30th, 2009

I actually heard this idea while at the hairdresser and thought it was simply brilliant!

The woman who came up with this idea has an elderly mother still able to live in her own home but only with the assistance of different caregivers on various shifts during the week.  Her mother has dementia so in order to keep track of the front door key from shift to shift, the woman’s daughter attached a lock box to the front door.  After they are hired, the caregivers are given the combination for the lock box in which the key is kept.  Upon arrival for their shift, they get the key out of the lock box and when their shift is over, they replace the key.  Voila!  No issues on where the front door key is or who has it!

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The winner of the contest we ran the last few weeks in honor of National Family Caregivers Month was drawn randomly from the entries received.  Thank you to all who participated!!

And the winner is  (drumroll please) . . . Shiela! :-)

We will send you an email today, Shiela, to get the mailing address you want your prize sent to.

Congratulations!!!

Announcing a TLeC Contest for National Family Caregivers Month 2009

November 16th, 2009

“Music is part of being human.”

~ Oliver W. Sacks

To continue our celebration of and gratitude for all caregivers during National Family Caregivers Month 2009, TLeC is holding it’s very first contest!

  • It is open to all caregivers, families employing caregivers, and/or eldercare professionals in the U.S.A.
  • It starts November 16, 2009 and all entries must be received no later than 6pm PST on November 29, 2009.  The one (1) winner will be chosen at random and announced here on November 30, 2009. Prize will be shipped to the winner by TLeC.
  • How to Enter:  Sign up for the TLeC Newsletter in the top right hand section of this page, under the blue headline “Get More Caregiving Tips from Tender Loving Eldercare!”  Type in your name and email address, click on the “Sign Me Up” button, and complete the one last step of clicking on the link in the confirmation email that will be delivered instantly to your inbox.  That final step is important — it both completes your newsletter sign up  and also enters you into the contest.  That’s all you have to do! Easy Peasy! :-D

What Can You Win?

The prize is a wonderful DVD set called “Toe-Tapping Songs” created by Darlene Hamby, a music specialist in the eldercare field.  The set centers around a collection of 20 songs to sing along to.  They are all “feel good” tunes, and caregivers, seniors (or Golden Oldies as I like to call them) and their families will enjoy them. It consists of a DVD of a music session, with Darlene playing the piano and singing with senior citizens, and also includes six sing-along song books.  Inside the song books, you will find one page dedicated to each song containing the lyrics in LARGE PRINT and a photo to match the song’s theme.  It is packaged in a compact binder which is both easy to store and easy to travel with.

Darlene’s love of both music and Golden Oldies shines through as she sings and plays the piano on this DVD.  I’ve had the pleasure of participating in one of her live music sessions and I’m sure people of all ages will enjoy having their own sing-alongs with Darlene via this DVD.  This set can be used to create fun music sessions during family gatherings or in an assisted living facility’s activity program.  It will be a big hit over and over again in either setting!

Here is a preview of the prize:

DVD Music Set -- Contest Prize

DVD Sing-Along Music Set

Sample Song Page DVD Music Sing-along Set

Sample of a Song Page

Table of Contents for Toe-Tapping Songs

Toe-Tapping Songs Table of Contents

So get your entries in now!  And please feel free to tell others about this contest in your caregiving world as well!  Thanks!

Contests for Caregivers during National Family Caregivers Month — November 2009

November 11th, 2009

National Family Caregivers Month is about celebrating and showing our gratitude for family caregivers, both near and far. It is our chance to publicly or privately shine the spotlight on these wonderfully giving individuals.

Here is an excerpt from President Obama’s Proclamation about National Family Caregivers Month, 2009:

The true strength of the American family finds its roots in an unwavering commitment to care for one another. In difficult times, Americans come together to ensure our loved ones are comfortable and safe. Whether caring for a parent, relative, or child, our Nation’s caregivers selflessly devote their time and energy to the well-being of those they look after. During National Family Caregivers Month, we honor the individuals providing essential services to family members who could not otherwise look after themselves . . . . I encourage all Americans to pay tribute and support those who are caring for their family members, friends, and neighbors in need of assistance.

What You Can Do

If you know a caregiver, please take time to thank them for all they are doing for their care recipients(s).  And then take it a step further and ask what you can do for them — whether it be pampering them (manicure, pedicure, massage, hair salon appointment?), doing errands or chores for them, and or providing them with some needed time away (also known as respite) from their responsibilities to enjoy themselves in whatever way they so choose.

And what would be even better is to continue this practice all year round — not just this month.

Opportunities to Win Prizes for Caregivers this Month

TENA, an incontinence care company, asked me to announce its first “Caregivers Night Out” sweepstakes.

From October 19th to November 30th, 2009, caregivers from all over the nation can enter to win $100 to spend on an evening out at their favorite Olive Garden ® or Outback Steakhouse ® family of restaurants. Over forty winners from across the U.S. will be announced on November 30th.

To enter the contest caregivers should visit TENA’s site and share a tip or piece of advice about caregiving with others, which may be featured in future TENA email blasts or on their web site.  With over 54 years of experience, TENA is the worldwide leader in the management of incontinence, providing products and services for individuals and healthcare service providers in over 90 countries.

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If you are on Facebook there is another contest where you can win a prize for a special caregiver in your life!

Become a Facebook Fan of Care.com and write on their wall about your “Care Hero.”  By doing so you automatically enter your caregiver into their contest to win him or her a night out worth $500.

Care.com will select three Finalists each week in November.  Each Finalist will receive a $100 dining gift certificate and each Finalist’s nominator will receive a free 3-month membership to Care.com. (Editor’s Note: The first week’s Finalists have already been selected, so enter ASAP to enter for the remaining two weeks of judging.)

At the end of the month, Care.com will select one Grand Prize Winner from among the 12 Finalists. The Grand Prize Winner will receive:

  • $500 in dining, entertainment, and hotel gift certificates
  • A bag of goodies from Care.com
  • The Grand Prize Winner’s nominator will receive a $100 dining gift certificate and a bag of goodies

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Forward this post on now to any caregivers you know or to the families of care recipients so they can enter the contests during National Family Caregivers Month.  Please let me know if you hear of other contests like these going on in November so I can let the TLeC community know about them, too.  Thank you!

I’m Proud to be Blogging for a Cause

November 2nd, 2009

Blog-4-Cause E-Book

I’m excited to share this blogging project with everyone here at TLeC and beyond!

Two bloggers, Lance Ekum and Joanna Sutter, teamed up to create a very special e-book and in doing so make a difference in the world.  They asked writers worldwide to contribute articles to their unique and on line vision of a Race for the Cure.

If “Race for the Cure” rings a bell, it is because the Susan G. Komen Foundation holds fundraisers with that name in cities nationwide on their mission to end breast cancer and raise awareness about this life-threatening disease. I’ve participated in our local Race for the Cure many times. And as a grateful breast cancer survivor for over 13 years, the Susan G. Komen Foundation is a charity near and dear to my heart.

A total of 150 writers contributed a favorite article to this e-book, creating a wonderful collection of stories.  Stories of inspiration, personal growth, fitness, food, humor, and more.  I am thrilled and honored to be part of this special e-book.

Today I am asking for your support in this effort.

Breast cancer has affected countless millions of people – from the women and men who have had this disease, to their family and friends who love them.

Estimates show that breast cancer is newly diagnosed in approximately 200,000 women each year.  And while the risks are much lower, men are not immune from this disease either.  That’s about 550 new cases of breast cancer EVERY DAY.

The Susan G. Komen for the Cure, founded in 1982, has become the world’s single largest source of nonprofit funds dedicated to curing breast cancer at every stage from the causes to the cure.

Please visit the Susan G. Komen Blog-4-Cause website to learn how you can support the mission to end breast cancer.  In addition, you’ll find information on how to receive this Blog-4-Cause E-book as a gift to you.  A bonus e-book, from author and life coach Tim Brownson, is included as well.

Together we can all make a difference.

Thank you for your support in ending breast cancer forever!

Guest Post at Silver and Grace

September 28th, 2009

I have a guest post up at Silver and Grace for everyone to read.   The article is titled “Graceful Women: You are an Empty Nester when . . . .”  Stop over and check it out!  It’s a reflection about a part of my life I don’t share with my readers here.

Silver and Grace is a site dedicated to guiding women ages forty and older towards graceful and beautiful aging.  Eliza, creator and author of Silver and Grace, describes her goals as three-fold:  sharing knowledge, telling her personal stories, and building a community of like minded women. I think she’s doing a wonderful job on all three!

Please stop by and read my article along with all the other fine writings Eliza has posted there.  Also keep up with the latest at Silver and Grace by subscribing to it here.

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See You In September

August 12th, 2009

Last Wave of Summer, 2008

Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass on a summer day listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is hardly a waste of time.

~ John Lubbock

Commitments offline (some expected, some unexpected, but all good) will take me away from Tender Loving Eldercare until early September.

While here please feel free to sign up for the TLeC Newsletter (in the top right hand corner where it says “Sign Me Up”), read through previous articles, and/or add a comment.  “Recent Posts” as well as “Categories” are listed in the right hand column, and a simple click on any topics of interest will bring you to more articles.

My goal is always for you to feel better after having spent time here!

Thanks for visiting TLeC and I’ll see you in September!

Cheers,

Linda :-)

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Photo Credit:  Boby Dimitrov’s Photostream on Flickr

Feel Good Fridays — 7/10/09

July 10th, 2009

No matter what caregiving challenges you face today, take a few minutes to put your feet up and watch this joyful YouTube video.  The romantic in me gives it an A++!

If you have trouble viewing this video, please click here.

Hat Tips to Ed Dale for Twittering about this and Armand Morin for posting it on his blog!

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To everyone in the TLeC community, have a great weekend! :-)

I’m Temporarily Missing In Action

April 6th, 2009

Hello TLeC Community,

I haven’t been able to post since the end of March, but I don’t want you to worry about me.  I have been out of town on a personal family matter that I’ll be writing about more next week.  I’m back home now, but need some time to catch up on things, both off line and on line, since I had to leave in a hurry.  I will be back with lots of new articles, inspirational quotes and humor next week.

To Keep You Busy This Week . .  .

In my absence Tender Loving Eldercare has been featured in the inaugural edition of the Eldercare ABC Blog Carnival, which is described as “a collection of blog entries from some of the best elder help bloggers from around the Internet.”  I’m flattered to be included there!  Click here to find many wonderful articles to read and new blogs to explore on topics for family caregivers. I know you won’t be disappointed.

I’m looking forward to being back with lots of new material for you all next week!  Thanks for your patience and understanding.

Just Abbit O’Blarney!

March 17th, 2009

Abbit O\'Blarney 2009

May your kilt be short enough to dance a jig

and long enough to hide your lucky charms!

Happy St. Patty’s Day!


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